Matron of honor & maid of honor???

You can have one or both. It is up to you!

You can have both! I have a maid of honor and a matron of honor.

If I have both how does that all work? Both give speech/toast? Both have same duties?

I have both.

I have two maids of honor (we're 3 best friends) They're doing a speech together and spliting their duties

You can have whatever you want.

I works how ever you and your MOH's want it to work. The general expectation of the MOH is nothing. They buy a dress and they show up the day of the wedding. It's entirely up to them if they wish to contribute beyond. Some MOH's want to be involved, and others don't. My advice is to expect nothing and be happy if they volunteer to help out. When it comes to speeches you can discuss that with them. Does either or both of them want to give a speech? If they both do then they can each say a few words.

You can do both. It doesn't 'work' beyond them showing up.

Originally I was just going to have a maid of honor but then I decided my sister could be a matron of honor so I have both and then two bridesmaids. I am very happy with my decision!

Well my matron of honor wants to have duties. She's the best. She wants to be there for the crazy planning, throw a Bach party, help with the shower, and much more. I'm not saying that's how it should always be but in my case my friends want "duties"

It's however you want. I had 4 BM no MOH. It worked fine. They all wrote the speech together and one of them volunteered to say it at the reception

That's why I decided to change my sister from a bridesmaid to matron of honor. She has been doing so much to help and giving her the "title" really means something to her. I think it just depends on you and your party.

It's great to have people that actually WANT to be involved, right? Lol super stress relief

You can have both. My SIL had both in her wedding! There is nothing wrong with having both.

You can have both. My BFF is my matron and my future step-daughter is my maid. They have no responsibilities other than showing up in their dresses. Just a word of caution Tiffany (besides changing your avatar) when you talk about your matron of honor helping make sure you make it obvious she offered. Some on here get a little overzealous when they think you're making your bridal party "glitter covered slaves".