Would it be appropriate to have my aunt as my Matron of Honor at the age of 43? I've never been to a wedding with a Matron of Honor so I'm not sure what the norm is. She doesn't look it and is very young at heart. We're very close and I want to include her in the wedding somehow. I will be asking my uncle (her husband, he is my uncle by marriage) to officiate our wedding. Mostly because we are not religious and because my family is composed primarily of Spanish speakers but we'll be getting married in TN so it'll be hard to come across someone who can host the ceremony in Spaniah. That being said, more of a reason I'd like to include her somehow.
Thoughts?