Our venue is not requiring the guests to wear masks since it's a private event. We told our guests they can wear them if they want but it's not a requirement. FH's brother (and best man) is very upset by this and has threatened to not come to the wedding unless we mandate masks, and has also said that if he does come, he will not take his mask off, including pictures.
I don't really want to look back and remember this happening during my wedding, and seeing everyone (or even him) in masks, and my FH and i paid for the photographer. We're trying to decide if we ask him to either remove his masks for pictures, or just not have him in pictures at all.
Any input? Has this happened to anyone else? Did you all mandate masks for guests and how did that go over? Did anyone have masks in all of your pictures? i'm at such a loss and i'm so upset and disappointed but I feel like a brat for feeling that way.