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Amber
Super September 2020

Marriage or not

Amber, on October 20, 2019 at 3:30 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 4
I'm getting married in September and right now I don't see that even happening. My fh and I been fighting a lot lately and I keep telling myself I don't even know if I still even want to marry him. Ever since we've gotten in engaged our relationship has changed and we just hardly don't get along which its crazy because before we hardly never argue. I feel like he and I want two different things plus he's checked out on being involved in our wedding and I've totally stopped planning our wedding because I feel so alone in this and I just am over it. I've been married before and I just don't want another failed marriage so now that I'm feeling alone in this relationship it's like I've checked out on this whole wedding stuff.

This should be a happy time and it's not at all.. I'm scared that my relationship is going to be over by the time we're supposed to be getting married..

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Latest activity by Amanda, on October 20, 2019 at 9:53 AM
  • Future Mrs. Petro
    Devoted November 2018
    Future Mrs. Petro ·
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    Talk to him and let him know how you are feeling. If you can't communicate with him about your frustrations they are only going to mount and poison your relationship.
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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra ·
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    Wedding planning is stressful on it's own. Have you spoken to FH about your feelings?
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  • Megan
    Expert October 2019
    Megan ·
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    I agree with PPs. Have you had a calm conversation about your feelings? Many guys dont take a hard interest in weddings... mine had input but it was a lot of IDK, IDC with details. Guys think this is a "Bride" thing.

    Agree to sit down and talk but also agree that if it gets heated, you both walk away and calm down. My husband and I fought more during our planning than we ever had, because i felt the same way. I finally took my own advice and let him know i wanted his involvement because it was our day, not my day. Good luck.
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  • Amanda
    Master December 2020
    Amanda ·
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    If the "talking to him about your feelings" and what not doesn't work, I would definately suggest coupkes counselling as you need to get to the root of your issues before the wedding and esp stop wasting time and money if its just not going to work out! I'm so sorry to hear about this and hope for the best for you Smiley heart
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