MOST PEOPLE WILL SAY THAT I AM TWO YOUNG WAY TWO YOUNG TO BE MARRIED & HONESTLY I THINK AGE IS JUST A NUMBER. PLUS U ONLY LIVE ONCE SO WHY NOT TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ALL THAT WE CAN DREAM TO DO BEFORE SUMTHING HAPPENS TO ONE OF US.
I think people can grow together or grow apart. I was a completely different person at 23 and my ex and I grew apart, but my cousin has been with her boyfriend for almost 9 years (since they were 19) and they are planning to get married on their 10 year anniversary next October. They have changed and grown a lot, but they did it together and it has made their bond stronger. Good luck to both of you.
I’m 25 and my partner is 21... and we agree that age is just a number if both adults are mature, able to communicate/work on communicating through hardships, can work through decision-making as a couple, trust, and sincerely apologize.
My fiancé’s mother has been asking when will the proposal finally happen (as well as giving advice for it).
23 isn't all that young. Do what makes you happy. I've heard and seen others at 19 get married. My fiance is 23 and I'm 30. Our birthdays are 2 days apart coming up September so by our wedding, we'll be 24 and 31.
My husband and I met at 19/21 and got married at 22/24. I don’t feel like we got married too young. 19 would’ve been too young, but I could’ve told you I was going to marry him even back then. Emotional maturity and comparability end the strength of your relationship is way more important than chronological age.
I think that age is fine. what's more important is your commitment to one another and honoring and respecting that at all times even when its hard to. when it seems easier to just walk away. my fiancé and i dated in high school and then again in college. at this point we have been together for over 15 years. we have each grown and changed in so many ways but what never faltered between us was our commitment to one another, communication and honesty. i honestly knew in high school that he was the one and he says he felt the same but we also knew we had a lot of growing up and living to do individually and together
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Lol I don’t go to school so I am not a science pro sorry teach me that when I am 43
I feel like this if tou and your FH are ready for marriage go for it. Ppl get married younger then you at times and are still together. For me it isnt about age whencit comes to the individual itself mindset and maturity level.