Hey everyone! I've done some reading on this topic but I still just don't feel quite sure about how to handle the situation.
Both of my parents are alcoholics in denial. They are also divorced and their relationship is not great. They aren't the drink all day non-functional type, but rather the type that when they start drinking, belligerently drunk is the only end game. My mom in particular is prone to doing so and not being able to handle herself. She gets unpredictably emotional or mean. The problem is, in typical alcoholic fashion, neither one of them think they have a problem. My mom is one that talking to her will make her mean about it and I'm afraid she will either spend the whole time mopey, act out, drink "at me", or some combination of those things. My dad is better about hiding it but is also prone to acting out or doing something embarrassing.
My FH's family is opposite. They don't hardly drink and are always very...normal. I guess I'm just looking for advice on how to manage this. I don't want there to be conflict or drama but I also would like to avoid any embarrassment I can. I love both of my parents and I want them to be part of our day.