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Cassie & Shiv
Savvy September 2014

Male bridesmaid, how to have them walk down the aisle

Cassie & Shiv, on July 17, 2014 at 5:41 PM Posted in Planning 0 10

So my "maid" of honor and one of my bridesmaids are guys and then I have 2 females. On my fiance's side there are 3 to 4 guys and maybe one female taking the best man's place ....long story. Basically we've had a TON of issues with bridesmaids and groomsmen because most of them are students or in the military so guaranteeing free time isn't easy for them.

Anyway that issue aside I'm trying to figure out how to have them walk down the aisle....should i do one by one for some of them? or should i pair them and if so how?

I'm in desperate need of advice on this I've been trying to figure it out for a while and I'm at a loss. Might I add I don't know much about weddings nor have I been to many so I don't know what would look normal and what wouldn't...

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Latest activity by Lacey, on July 18, 2014 at 10:26 AM
  • Karen
    Super October 2014
    Karen ·
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    We are having the the groomsmen enter from the side with the Pastor and groom before the processional. Then the bridesmaids will walk one by one before me. And then for the recessional you can have them just walk down at the same time. They don't have to escort each other or hold hands. Just walk next to each other.

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  • Lori
    Master June 2015
    Lori ·
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    You can really do this however you want. A few ideas:

    1. Everyone just walks one by one

    2. Have the groomsmen stand at the altar w/ your FH, and the male bridesmaids can escort the female ones down the aisle

    3. Have everyone process, but have each female BM escorted by one groomsman and one male BM.

    4. Have each groomsman walk down with a BM, regardless of their gender. Two guys can definitely walk down together. They don't have to link arms or anything. FWIW, I've seen this done at weddings and it wasn't weird.

    Basically, just figure out whatever will flow.

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  • Cassie & Shiv
    Savvy September 2014
    Cassie & Shiv ·
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    Oh the idea of having the groomsmen already there is good I didn't even think about that!

    @Lori I thought about your second suggestions, do you think it would look ok for the to walk down and then go to the same side rather than splitting off? If the numbers work out I'll probably do the three at a time option

    Thank y'all so much! I really just needed opinions on what would and wouldn't look odd

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  • *Mrs_D*
    Master October 2014
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    We are going to have my bridesman walk with one of my bridesmaids and a groomsman because I have 5 BMs, a Bridesmand, and FH only had 5 groomsmen. It will work and look great!

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  • Kae.eli
    Devoted June 2024
    Kae.eli ·
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    We have two "bridesmen" as well! We plan to have everyone walk down the aisle, together. A man and a woman for the first four, and then one bridesmaid will trail them before my nephew and niece walk down (RB and FG), followed by my father and I.

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  • L
    VIP September 2014
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    We have a groomsmaid. How it works in our church is that the groomsmen are already up there and my BMs and MOH walk down alone. We will probably have our groomsmaid walk down alone too and then just stand on his side. Then when they walk back after the ceremony, they are paired up and she will be paired up with a bridesmaid.

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  • J
    VIP August 2014
    J ·
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    All of the bridal party can already be at the alter? It can just be FG, RB and you that walk down

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  • S
    Super September 2015
    stephybear84 ·
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    Friend had a male MOH and he just walked alone and the last 2 BM's and GM walked together.

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  • C
    Dedicated September 2014
    COSeptBride ·
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    We are having everyone walk in one by one for the same reason.

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  • Lacey
    Master May 2014
    Lacey ·
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    I had the GMs already up at the front. I had one "Bride's Honor Attendant" if you will and he was at the end of my line and ushered my mother in. When the recessional started, he ushered my mother out and the lone GMs ushered out Zach's mother. It worked great.

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