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Gwendolyn
Devoted July 2021

Making micro-wedding dinner fun/special

Gwendolyn, on May 18, 2020 at 1:07 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 6

Hi all!

As long as Colorado allows more than 10 people in a group by July 28th, we will be having a microwedding with our close family. Unfortunately international family can no longer come, so we are now at 14 people including us and four children under 10.

My mom is incredibly shy and socially awkward - thankfully my aunt and grandmother are not. Our families have not met one another. I expect the kids will be entertained enough together (plus I bought creativity packets for each). But I'm a little worried about making it "special" and making sure everyone has a good time. We will have a mix of music playing and there is space for the kids to dance if they want, but otherwise it's just dinner. Any suggestions? What did you do/have you done, if you are also just doing a dinner/cake (no dancing).

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Latest activity by Naikesha, on May 28, 2020 at 7:35 AM
  • Little
    Dedicated February 2020
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    What about something with a retro theme, like a fondue party? You could have retro food options, decor, drinks, games, and movies. Maybe a dance instructor? Another option is one of those Italian-style weddings with the one really long table in the backyard. You could find some real Italian food and score some nice wine.
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  • Gwendolyn
    Devoted July 2021
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    Sorry I should have clarified - it is in a historic hotel that has a restaurant on site, so the menu is already set. The cool thing is it does have a huge wine cave in what used to be a money vault, but unfortunately FH's mother doesn't drink and mine barely drinks! I'm hoping the couple of us who do can "liven" things up and get conversation going.

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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
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    I think everyone will be so glad to see other people, it probably won't be too hard to have a good vibe. That, and it's your *wedding*, so people should be excited.

    That said, you can always come up with some "get to know each other" games for during dinner, since this is the first time they'll meet.

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  • Gwendolyn
    Devoted July 2021
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    Thanks! I think I am over-thinking and being paranoid. My mom is really weird about meeting new people and is kind of a hermit; but I think the positive and upbeat vibes from my other family members will probably help keep good conversations going.

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  • Gina
    WeddingWire Administrator April 2021
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    Hi Gwendolyn,

    I think what you have planned sounds so lovely! I can kind of related. My mom is the opposite of a hermit - she is almost too outgoing that is becomes uncomfortable lol I totally understand where you are coming from!

    I wouldn't stress too much on how your guests will feel. This is your special day and I'm certain they will be elated just to see you marry your partner. I'm excited to hear how it all turns out!

    Sending so much love your way!

    Smiley heart

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  • Naikesha
    Super September 2020
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    I think maybe have speeches, play the shoe game, dance, photo backdrop etc.


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