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Laurin
Beginner October 2021

Makeup and Hair - Entire Bridal Party?

Laurin, on May 27, 2020 at 12:43 PM

Posted in Hair and Makeup 23

Hello, everyone! I'd like some opinions... I'm planning on getting my hair and makeup done by a professional, and was wondering if it's considered rude or awkward not to include your bridal party in the mix and pay for it as well. I've asked some of the ladies if they'd like to join me with hair and...

Hello, everyone!

I'd like some opinions... I'm planning on getting my hair and makeup done by a professional, and was wondering if it's considered rude or awkward not to include your bridal party in the mix and pay for it as well.

I've asked some of the ladies if they'd like to join me with hair and makeup, and they've almost unanimously said that they're interested and are happy to pay for that if I decide to hire someone (which I have), but I feel odd asking them to pay for something when I'm asking them to be there on my wedding day and to celebrate with me.

Not that this matters, but the wedding will be entirely paid by my fiance and I, and we're have zero problems with that because we're doing this thing our way and are well within our comfortable budget. That said, I'm happy to get a package for everyone if that's what is customarily done, but on the other hand, every penny counts too!

I also feel a bit weird being completely made over while they stand and watch, but to be fair I have NO clue what is customary, etc...

I could truly go either way with no problem, I'm just unsure of what the customary plan is for most folks.

Any thoughts? What did you do, or do you plan to do?


Thanks for the help!

23 Comments

  • RaylaSan
    Expert February 2021
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    I have six bridesmaids, so i decided to only pay for their makeup, and they can do their hair themselves.
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2020
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    If you'd like to pay for it, I think that would be lovely. But I don't think you're obligated to since you're not requiring them to have their hair or makeup done professionally.

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  • Sarah
    Savvy October 2021
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    I'm not requiring my bridesmaids to get their hair / makeup done professionally, but I told them (I have 5 total) that I could put $50 towards each of their services to help offset their expenses if they wanted to. They all decided to get hair/makeup done and appreciated the offer especially since they are spending so much money on travel, their dresses, etc.

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