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Me Be, on March 31, 2021 at 2:38 PM Posted in Planning 6 17

Hi ALL! My wedding is June 5Th, 2021 in New York. I mailed out my formal invites March 15, 2021, Not one of my guests have received their formal invites, what should I do? I am freaking out...

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Latest activity by The, on May 18, 2022 at 6:13 PM
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah Online ·
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    Did you make sure your postage values were correct? I am in NJ, and my in-laws recently sent me a birthday card from Florida, and it got to me in less than 10 days (I looked at the postage date). If no one at all got your invites yet, I would be concerned that something specific happened.
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    June 2021
    Dj Tanner ·
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    When you mailed out your invites, did you hand them to the person inside of the post office or did you dump them in the mailbox or your own mailbox? I handed mine right inside the post office directly to the postal person. I live in RI and even my out-of-state people in Florida got theirs super quickly. I would give it another week TOPS and if they haven’t received anything by then, something definitely went wrong and you may want to think about resending the invites.
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  • Biaani
    Expert May 2021
    Biaani ·
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    Agree with all the above. I asked the person at the post office if 1 stamp was ok bc we used acrylic invitations. All my guests got their invitation within a week, some even in 2 days.

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    Beginner June 2021
    Me Be ·
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    I went and handed them into the office. I will give it another week. Its so odd that not one of my quest have received the invites. I agree, I feel like something may have gone wrong

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    Beginner June 2021
    Me Be ·
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    I agree, I am going to give it another weeks tops. It was definitely the right postage value. I am freaking out.

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    Beginner June 2021
    Me Be ·
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    WOW! It definitely was the right postage. I am on the second week and nothing. This is making me panic

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  • Grace
    Savvy July 2021
    Grace ·
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    I live in NY as well and there have been multiple delays in mail. Maybe make a post on social media asking for people to text or call you if they receive the invite past your RSVP deadline.
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    Dedicated May 2021
    Jenn ·
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    I live in NYC and we mailed out our invites on Jan 28th, and those living in California got theirs in 3 days whereas those living in New York didn't receive theirs until March 6th!
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    Expert June 2021
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    Hey fellow NY bride June 4, almost twinsies! Lol
    I mailed out my invites last Friday and guests started to get them as early as this Monday I was honestly shocked since save the dates in November took weeks. You can give it another week or so and then reach out to guests to see if they started to receive them yet. We also had them weighed prior to mailing and got proper postage then dumped them in the mailbox at 8 am. If there is anything wrong regarding postage they’ll be mailed back to you. But hopefully in another week guests will start receiving them.
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    Beginner June 2021
    Me Be ·
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    Hey almost twin! I will give it another week, they were properly weighted at the post office before being mailed. I know the USPS is experiencing delays, but this is borderline ridiculous. Next week will make three full weeks! My concern is no one has received them. Not one person. Its making me nervous. My only saving grace is that I am having all my guest RSVP online and not via snail mail. My planner warned me USPS was delayed, but wow!

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    Beginner June 2021
    Me Be ·
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    Not one person got mine. I sent invites to some in Baltimore , Virginia and Florida... they have got nothing.

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    Dedicated May 2021
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    Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry it's taking so long!
    Since your wedding isn't until June, you still have some time! Don't panic❤
    I hope everything works out for you!
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    Beginner June 2021
    Me Be ·
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    Thank you! I do have a little time, but I am hoping people get the within the next week. I will try not to panic. Thank you for the support.

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    Beginner June 2021
    Me Be ·
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    Update! I know of guest who received their invite... Im still nervous.. its now week 3

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    Beginner June 2021
    Me Be ·
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    Hello Brides! As an update, I only know of one person who has received their invite... Aside from that everyone who I have texted and called has told me they have not received the invite. April 15, will make a whole month since invites were sent. Nothing was returned to me, so I can't imaging that they have lost all 70 invites. I just want to cry!

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  • Vic
    Just Said Yes May 2022
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    Hello! I know this was awhile ago, but did anymore people ever receive their invites?? I am currently experiencing this freak out. My coordinator mailed out last Wednesday and not one person has received them yet.
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    Just Said Yes September 2022
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    Hi Vic I’m a 2022 bride as well. I mailed mine off April 15. People are just now getting them, with some STILL not getting them at all. It’s so disappointing but I’m crossing my fingers that they continue to deliver to mailboxes this week!
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