Hi Everyone,
Im after a bit of advice on my Bridesmaids/Maids of Honor situation. For context, my fiance and i are having 3 groomsmen and 3 bridesmaids and a guest list of approximately 100 people, wedding is in Australia. My 3 bridesmaids are all women who i have been friends with since childhood, 2 of them 'Q' and 'L', i went to high school with where we became and have since stayed inseparable as a group of 3. The other, 'R' i have known for longer, although we drifted apart as teens and have become close again as young adults. 'R' and 'L' were very close as young girls and had stayed in contact as we all moved away from home to study, however their friendship became somewhat more distance a few years ago, the circumstances of which are not relevant here. 'Q' and 'R' do not know each other very well, and have only socialized together with 'L' and myself.
The 3 get along fine when they are together, and there is no issue with them all being bridesmaids.
My problem:
I cannot choose between 'L' and 'Q' to be my Maid of Honor, i have equal love and respect for both of them. This is problematic as i do not feel it fair to make them both a Maid of Honor while 'R' is then the only bridesmaid. So do i make all 3 my 'Maids of Honor' or keep all 3 as my Bridesmaids and not have a Maid of Honor?
Any advice is appreciated.
Thanks!
