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Caitlyn
Dedicated August 2017

Maid-tron of Honor???

Caitlyn, on June 19, 2017 at 9:35 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 13

Happy Monday morning brides-to-be! My question for you all is have you ever heard of a maid-tron of Honor? I have three best friends that have been there for me through thick and thin. One of them is married one of them is single and the last one is getting married a month after me. So naturally I have my maid of honor in my matron of honor but I still want to honor my friend who is sort of in limbo at the moment. What do you guys think???

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Latest activity by Bemyguest, on June 19, 2017 at 1:18 PM
  • A&W
    Master May 2017
    A&W ·
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    This seems like a lot. If they're all honored, then none of them are. You could just call them all bridesmaids if you want them to be equal.

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
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    *Matron

    What A&W said Smiley smile

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  • FutureMrs.L
    Master September 2018
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    I agree with A&W. It seems a bit much. If you honor them all, then really none are being honored. It's a good suggestion to have them as bridesmaids, and no MOH. I'm sure, even if you did pick a MOH, they wouldn't mind and would continue being there as BM.

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  • MrsSki
    Master April 2017
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    Just make them all bridesmaids. If you simply must give them all "honor" titles, you can have one matron of honor (the married one) and have the other two as maids of honor. Maid-tron isn't a thing or a word and sounds like an awful character on the Transformers or something

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  • BookcaseHat
    Master July 2017
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    I agree with pp that if everybody gets the honor, it's the same as nobody getting it, BUT if it's really important to you, she would just be a second Maid of Honor. It doesn't matter that she's getting married soon after you, she'll be unmarried at the time of your wedding, so that makes her a Maid and not a Matron (and definitely not any cutesy made-up word.)

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  • michelle d
    VIP January 2018
    michelle d ·
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    I have 2 matrons of honor and 3 bridesmaids. The 2 are both my best friends and I couldn't pick one over the other

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  • Caitlyn
    Dedicated August 2017
    Caitlyn ·
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    Lol thanks everyone for the input... Just a thought. I think I will just have the 1 Maid of Honor and the 1 Matron of Honor. I got to thinking about it... My other best friend has enough on her plate w/her own wedding planning.

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  • Kirstie819
    Super August 2017
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    All of mine are Bm. no MOH's for me.

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  • Del
    Master November 2017
    Del ·
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    I agree with not having a maid-tron, but regarding having too much on her plate? That's not a thing. MOH, no matter what the M stands for, doesn't carry any extra responsibilities that BM don't have. It's just an honorary title, not a job description.

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  • B
    Just Said Yes February 2018
    Brooke ·
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    I know a girl with THREE MOH's... It's way less special that way. Maybe just decorate her bouquet like the other two or something... Or give the 3 of them special jewelry to wear.. It really does take the honor out of it when it's just thrown all over the place.

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  • Celia Milton
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    Make them all bridesmaids and call it quits. In theory, EVERYONE who is standing up with you is one of your most honored friends. You're not staffing a company with a hierarchy.

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  • Sarah
    VIP July 2018
    Sarah ·
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    Yep. Just bridesmaids. Simplify!

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  • Bemyguest
    Master April 2017
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    You're getting married in two months and you don't have this decided yet?

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