Maid of Honor

My BFF is my Maid of Honor, we been friends for a LONG time. I love her to Death but shes been acting weird. Like any Bride we want to Celebrate something small, go out for drinks. I don't want her spending money or going out of her way spending Money for me. Everyone is asking me if I'm getting a bridal shower and i keep saying IDK??? so i asked her if we can go out? she said NOOOO I dont like ur F fake firends so NOOO u go ahead with them. So I said but u my MOH , come on do it for me not them. SHE said nooo i dont like none of those b so NOOOO so i asked her what are u gonna do at the Wedding? and she said nothing! i don't talk to them . I have not asked her for nothing BUT ONE thing and its Became a big issue. I'm very hurt because i want her there with me and she avoiding everything. To me if she didnt want to be involve as MOH she should've told me , NO Thank u!