Iittle background I'm my parents only daughter but my best friend pretty much moved in with us my junior year of high school her freshman(5years ago) year my parent have always treated her like one of there kids she's even engaged to (and has to kids with ) my cousin
when deciding on my brides maids and maid of honor we weren't officially engaged because he was waiting to have a chance to ask my dad but I told my best friend I wanted her to be my maid of honor she kind of blew it off so I stopped by her house later to talk to her I asked if she understood what I was asking and she said yes and that she would be my maid of honor but that she wasn't going to get excited because I didn't have a ring yet and because I dated to many guys for her to take me seriously.
Heres where my problem is I feel she shouldn't have said that especially not in front of my fiancee. 1 because I've only talked to/dated 5 guys my entire life 2 because I feel that wasn't her place to say if she truly felt that way she could have said no I believe part of why she said the things she said was because she is frustrated with her own engagement she's had to push off twice do to being pregnant . I kind of want to tell her I don't want that negativity in my wedding party but at the same time her daughter and son will be one of my flower girls and my ring bearer and I don't want her to pull them from my wedding but what she said was really upsetting to me and my fiancee Should I just suck it up and go with she was having a bad day or kick her from my wedding party ?
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