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Maid of Honor

Mayra, on November 1, 2019 at 10:59 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 8

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Hi everyone. I have 2 sisters and a cousin who is like a sister. I asked one sister to be Maid of Honor and cousin to be Matron of Honor. I feel like my other sister is going to be upset because she was not one of the above. She knows that my sister is Maid of Honor but doesn’t know about my cousin. Idk how to tell her so she doesn’t get hurt or upset. How can I include her, she’s already going to be a bridesmaid but I know she’s going to feel like why wasn’t she up there with the other 2. I know no one is more important than another but she’s gonna be upset. Please advise....

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Latest activity by Megan, on November 15, 2019 at 8:47 AM

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Caytlyn · on November 1, 2019 at 11:09 PM
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She’s allowed to be disappointed. I don’t think there’s anything that you could or should do to make her feel otherwise. Being a bridesmaid is also an honor. She will get over it eventually, you can’t make everyone happy.
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Mandee · on November 1, 2019 at 11:22 PM
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Agree with PP. I was super upset when my oldest friend chose someone else as her MOH. I got over it and enjoyed just being a bridesmaid. She's going to be upset and she has every right to. Why did you chose two MOHs? Why did you chose a cousin over a sister? Be prepared for her to ask those questions and try to have a kind answer for her.
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Renee · on November 2, 2019 at 12:07 AM
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That's what I was going to say. She's definitely going to be asking those questions
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Mrs. Bubba · on November 2, 2019 at 9:40 AM
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Could they All be MoH?
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Mayra · on November 2, 2019 at 12:28 PM
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I was wondering if that was ever done before lol. That would be great
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Kelsey · on November 3, 2019 at 9:40 PM
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You can do what ever your little heart desires! It’s YOUR wedding! You do what you want!
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Laura · on November 13, 2019 at 12:34 PM
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Do u ask your maid of honour before all the bridesmaids? Or at the same time ?
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Megan · on November 15, 2019 at 8:47 AM
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My sister had 3 girls, me and 2 of her childhood friends. She declared us all her "Maid of Honors". We each helped equally, and each knew we had a place in her life. Maybe we're all laid back too which made it less stressful. My FW has a few people in her party too that are "mad" they're not her MOH. Biggest advice I can give you is, it's YOUR day. Do what you want and just remember, the day of the wedding it will all come together and everyone will forget about who's who. Have a good time and try to enjoy the planning!
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