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AshelyJ.
Devoted October 2017

Maid of honor trouble

AshelyJ., on March 2, 2017 at 1:41 PM

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So I had originally asked my sis to be my MOH. Her and I aren't very close, but I thought morally it's the right thing to do. My best friend has been going above and beyond to help me plan my wedding. We're my sister hasn't done a single thing, and we haven't spoken really, unless she needs...

So I had originally asked my sis to be my MOH. Her and I aren't very close, but I thought morally it's the right thing to do. My best friend has been going above and beyond to help me plan my wedding. We're my sister hasn't done a single thing, and we haven't spoken really, unless she needs something. Would it be wrong to have either no MOH or make my friend who has done everything with me for this wedding, be my MOH.

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    VIP March 2017
    Miss S. ·
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    Being a BM or MOH does not obligate someone to assist. It's great if someone does help, but don't ask or expect it. Since you've named your BP, it's too late to change the plan. Lesson learned: stand up to your parents if they push wedding decisions on you.

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  • Kats2742
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Kats2742 ·
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    I am having the same problem luckily I had already made a friend the Matron of Honor. Also, I feel that your wedding party should at least throw you a nice bridal shower if noth else. I can't even get that. My fiancee and I are paying for this wedding all by ourselves it would be nice to not have to pay or plan my own bridal shower too.
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