Hey everyone! so I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I kinda want to switch my maid of honor. I was engaged 2 years ago but because of covid wedding was postponed. For some background, I picked my besfriend to be my maid of honor, been friends since highs cool. At first it was great but lately this year we have been getting into petty fights or more so she is starting petty fights that i honestly do not have the energy or will to partake in. She gpt mad about my birthday, she wanted a whole day for just her and i but my fiance also wanted to celebrate my birthday with me of course along with our family. She didn't take this well when he asked her (politely might i add) what time she would be dropping me off at home so he could take me to the family dinner for my birthday. Needless to say she got her way, my fiancé moved the dinner and she was still mad. she held a grudge, a week later we went food shopping together and she couldn't stop saying how mad at him she was and that she hates him. then proceeded to say I don't support her because i wasn't the one to tell him to switch the family dinner. ( im the only one of her friends that is ever actually there for her, through breakups, family trouble, school trouble). Now she's mad at me, hasn't flat out said it but she isn't speaking to me, stopped sharing her location with me and when i do text her its very short answers. This is because i declined being a fake reference for her for a job she applied for. There have been many other squabbles just this year and I'm tired of them. I don't see a point in having someone who keeps causing petty fights and keeps saying she hates my fiancé in my wedding. I've grown super close to my fiancé's sister in law and would love tp have her as my maid of honor instead. I just don't know what to do.
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