Maid of honor problems.

Isn't this person a close friend of yours? Why not just say - "Hey Susy, I feel like you've been distant lately. Is everything okay?" See what she says. Just talk to her as the friend she is, not as you're the bride.

Also, please change your avatar to something other than the rings! They are associated with spam/trolls, so it will help you get more responses to your posts and it makes the forums easier to navigate.

I have two MOH's..... They started joking that they were busy on my wedding day. It was funny the first 100 times they said it! Now I want to stop talking to them both lol

My MOH is 500 miles away and she can't be with me for most of the planning nor did I ever expect her to, even if she was in the same state as me. She just has to be there the day of. Never expect someone to be as excited about your wedding as you are..it won't happen.

I'm the odd ball here. I didn't have a big wedding. But I'm here now helping my best friend with hers. Every since she asked me to be her MOH, I've done everything with her. She even asked me to go with her to pick out her dress. Her shoes. Went with her 4 times to the venue already. I love it! I'm so excited to be there beside her on her special day

You are entitled to how you feel. Just be honest with her and get everything out in the open now so you can move on and be stress free.

I'm a little confused because you said she only texts you when it's about her life but then you said she barely even talks to you about regular stuff.

I'd try to focus hard on not talking about the wedding for a bit with her..... And try not to be upset. Yes a MOH you'd think would want to be there to help but maybe she just can't be right now. As long as she shows up for the wedding you're fine!

My MOH is a wife, mother, works Two businesses and is busy. I don't really bother her. people ask me, why don't you ask her but honestly, people have lives outside of my wedding and I'm understanding. So I try to do things with my fiance and myself usually.