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Just Said Yes October 2018

Maid of honor and officiant

Jamie, on December 8, 2017 at 4:51 PM Posted in Planning 0 11

My best friend is an ordained minister and we want, as well as she would like to officiate our wedding, however, I cant think of anyone I would want to be my maid of honor more than her. Ideas of how to incorporate her to be able to do both?

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Latest activity by Celia Milton, on December 8, 2017 at 9:15 PM
  • Bridecb
    Devoted June 2018
    Bridecb ·
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    I personally would ask her to only be MOH. There are plenty of good officiants out there who could do a nice and professional job, where as theres only a few people who could be your MOH

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  • ThePeoplesBride
    VIP October 2020
    ThePeoplesBride ·
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    If she wants to officiate, let her, and then invite her to the reception. If you are having a head table with all of your bridal party and their significant others, you can have her sit next to you.

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  • J
    Just Said Yes October 2018
    Jamie ·
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    That's kind of what I was thinking! She really wants to officiate, but i think having her be my MOH would be much more special. I don't know how we could transition her walking down the aisle and then hopping up front!

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  • An
    Super September 2019
    An ·
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    Agree w Bridecb - the only thing you can really do is put it in the program if you have one and have her wear the same dress as the other bridesmaids. I would ask her to be MOH only.

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  • A
    Just Said Yes May 2018
    Alyssa ·
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    If you really want her to be your officiant, do it! You want her to be your MOH do that as well!!! My friend's wedding has his dad as the officiant and the best man! Have her walk down with the girls, take her place, keep the rings, marry you and then give the speech at the reception.

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  • Rachael
    Dedicated June 2019
    Rachael ·
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    It's your wedding, you can ask her to be both if you want!

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  • Elite
    Devoted March 2018
    Elite ·
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    I don't see a problem with this...It just have to be done tastefully...Be sure to make sure that the ceremony flows and the rhythm of the ceremony is not affected by her doing both things. I wish you the best of luck

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  • H
    November 2018
    happeningmom ·
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    She could be a MOH and walk down the aisle and once you have entered and are with your future spouse she could walk to the officiant position and perform the ceremony.

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  • Cathy
    Just Said Yes October 2018
    Cathy ·
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    I mean you don't have to have the officiant standing up at the front while everyone walks in. Have her walk up with the other bridesmaids just like a MOH would, but then turn around and give her flowers to another BM and let her officiate. She can totally do both

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  • Cathy
    Just Said Yes October 2018
    Cathy ·
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    The whole crowds eyes will be on you so no one will notice her change spots

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Is she a real minister who does this or did she get ordained to do a friend's wedding? That makes all the difference in the world. Has she done many weddings? Same deal.

    I'd have her be your MOH and get a pro to marry you. Let her enjoy the role of MOH.

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