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Jocelyn
Devoted December 2019

Low key upset over his bachelor party

Jocelyn, on November 17, 2019 at 10:19 AM

Posted in Parties and Events 22

Talk some sense into me before I flip out on him when he wakes up! My fiancé had his bachelor party last night. It was a low key kind of party. His 3 pals took him to see the heat play in Miami and then he told me after the game they were hitting a bar for drinks. Well they decided to hit up a club...
Talk some sense into me before I flip out on him when he wakes up! My fiancé had his bachelor party last night. It was a low key kind of party. His 3 pals took him to see the heat play in Miami and then he told me after the game they were hitting a bar for drinks. Well they decided to hit up a club and he returned home drunk at 4:30am. What gets me boiling is that he’s older than me by 4 years and I’m still in my early/mid 20. We have never gone to a club because he repeatedly tells me he’s done with them since he did it all through his younger 20. But now this is the second time he hits the club with friends and not me. I was told they were just going to a bar for drinks because he won a basketball and had to lug it around since he took the train. Idk I feel like he should keep the same energy he tells me about not going to clubs when he goes out. We have never done anything remotely that made us stay out till 4am. Idk I’m on the verge to calling him out. I think I’m also upset at the fact that he went to a club that I haven’t gone to and have always wanted to go to but since we don’t do clubs I’ve never been able to experience it.My maid of honor says give him a pass but my bachelorette was a trip to Disney not even close to going out to a club. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! I want to go to a club! I like to dance, get cute and have drink but it’s not his scene unless he’s with his boys. Talk me down because I’m always 100 honest on how I feel and I don’t think he wants to hear what I have to say. He knows I’m a little upset because he woke me up at 4:30 when I have to work 8-8 today.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I personally wouldn't care how drunk my husband got or how late he went out. He is 29 but on occasion (bachelor parties/birthdays/etc.) his friends will go out and get drunk like they did in their younger 20s. My main concern would be him telling you, that you can't go out to clubs or you guys can't do that together. That's the only thing that seems odd to me.

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  • Ashley
    Super November 2020
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    I definitely say give him a pass because he didn't do anything extreme. My rules for my FH's bachelor party are: no drugs and no naked/half naked women. Haha So by my rule, your FH did just fine.

    I would just sit down and tell him that you really want to go to a club with him and if he says no, tell him you'll have a girl's night and go to one then.

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