Hi all
My fiance and I are thinking of doing a little engagement bash to get everyone together and introduce one another ahead of our wedding later this year (so that our friends can meet one another since we have more friends on our own than we do as a couple - as in our 'couple friends').
The wedding is costly so I don't want anything elaborate for the engagement - it'll be a low key social gathering at a pub/beer garden. We will not be doing something at home or in a park etc as I think the pub/beer garden will make people more comfortable and is less pressure.
Will people take offence if we buy some food for everyone to share but they all otherwise pay for their own drinks? I come from a culture where buying your own drinks at an event is a no no (our wedding will have a full, paid for open bar) so even though I know it's reasonable, I don't want people being disappointed with having to pay for drinks at this event. Surely it'll suffice if I tell them all that its BYO (buy your own) drinks?