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Maria
Master June 2018

Low key bridal party entrance?

Maria, on May 24, 2018 at 11:18 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 17

I'm feeling conflicted about this. I have a small bridal party. 3bm, 3gm and a ring bearer. Between a couple of introverts, shy members, I decided only fh and I will be announced when we enter the reception. But now I'm second guessing myself. I definitely know that a flashy entrance doesn't fit our group. It would be out of character and would come out awkward. But I feel like they should be announced somehow.

Did anyone deal with this? Not all of them are shy and introverted and I don't want them to think I don't care about their participation. Any ideas?

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Latest activity by Cuoghi, on May 24, 2018 at 11:51 PM
  • Kristina
    Master August 2018
    Kristina ·
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    Ask them! They can probably tell you if they'd like to be introduced at all, and if they do and want it more low-key, they can probably give you ideas!

    Maybe just have them all come in with the DJ just saying their names instead of each pair coming in individually.

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  • T
    Super December 2018
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    I do not believe that a dance through the doorway is necessary if it would make your wedding party uncomfortable. Each couple could just as easily be announced and walk to their assigned table as they walked in the processional. That way, they can be acknowledged without much more personal embarrassment than they would have during the ceremony, but your wedding party is still able to make a grand entrance! Happy planning!
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    I find the entrances completely unnecessary and mildly annoying. Just have your wedding party enter with the rest of the guests
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  • Maria
    Master June 2018
    Maria ·
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    I've debated asking them but I've held back because I think it would get too complicated with the variety of feedback. So I thought I should just decide on my end.

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  • Maria
    Master June 2018
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    Yeah I'm thinking a normal walk is good option. Not themed or danced. Thanks.

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  • LB
    Champion November 2016
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    I feel like just having their named announced and them walking in isn't a big deal. You have a small party so it's not like its going to take a long time. No one needs to do anything goofy or dance, etc.

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  • Maria
    Master June 2018
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    I've definitely seen it done like this at weddings except that the bride and groom also entered with everyone else, were seen during cocktail hour ect. We're definitely making a simple entrance that would lead to our first dance. Which is why I'm still hesitant about excluding them.

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  • Maria
    Master June 2018
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    Thanks. It seems like keeping it simple is best.

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  • Kristina
    Master August 2018
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    I still think you should ask just to get general ideas Smiley smile If there's too much differing feedback, just go with what you were thinking

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  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
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    We were just announced as Mister and Mrs and the bridal party walked after us. They didn't care. I didn't want it to be a big deal. I just wanted to get to the party.

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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
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    We didn't have an "entrance" but instead just walked in with everyone else and sat at our table. My DH is very shy and really didn't want the attention drawn to him. We were with everyone during cocktail hour too so it seemed normal to just walk in to the room with everyone else. I like the picture the photographer shot just as we were walking in to sit at our table.

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  • Brianna
    VIP May 2018
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    We're not having our bridal party announced either, but we are doing a small entrance. We're just going straight into cake cutting though so we're not doing any dancing or anything like that.
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  • TheWrightGirl
    Super November 2017
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    My bp went in with the guest and only H and I were announced into the reception. Trust me, no one cares and most bp’s really don’t care if their name is ever announced.
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  • Neffe
    Master July 2020
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    Hi Maria! This part can definitely be awkward for introverts! I think it would subtle and lowkey if you had the entire bridal party enter together and have the host announce each pair simultaneously. This way, the focus won't rest on one single pair!

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    Could they all be introduced at once? So it isn't as intense? The DJ could say something like "welcome the bridesmaids and groomsmen to the party!" or something?

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  • Maria
    Master June 2018
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    These are all great ideas! Thanks everyone. I like the idea of grouping them all together and saying their names. Or announcing the pairs very close together.

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  • C
    Master July 2018
    Cuoghi ·
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    I'm doing the same thing you had planned. Not because of personality or shyness but i don't get all the big deal about the bridal party being announced. We arent famous or royalty, it isn't prom or a Broadway show.
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