Low Bridal Shower RSVPs.

Most showers I've been to are 10-12 people. You're overthinking this.

You can't cancel your own shower because you're not throwing it. You will still have a great time. Just think -- you'll be able to spend more time talking to the people who are actually coming.

People are already making travel plans and likely spending quite a bit of money (gifts, new outfits, babysitters, travel costs, etc) to come to your wedding. I know you're bummed, but cut them a break. It can be a lot to ask of people.

I don't plan to have a lot at mine either. It's just going to be a fun time with whoever shows up! Don't get bogged down in numbers!

The same thing happened to me! I invited 35 people...11 RSVPed yes and 8 people showed up. I was kind of embarrassed and bummed about it but I still had fun. I wish more people had showed up but there's not much I could do about it. I know my MOH, mom, and FMIL worked hard to put everything together for me and I really appreciated it! I know it's not the greatest feeling but you should still go - you'll get to spend quality time with close friends and family and it'll be a nice day!

WOW, who cares. That's a big punch in the face to the people who did say yes.

So? the rest of the guests don't know how many were invited. as far as their concerned, there was a 100% acceptance rate

You totally have the right to be angry! These people should be here to support you! This is YOUR day. You are the bride. Ugh. People can be so awful, am I right?

I've thrown showers for girls that have had less than 10 guests. You'll still have a good time and will get to spend quality time with your friends who are coming.

@Novak is right - enjoy your time with those that are able to attend the shower, they have no idea how many people were originally invited and there is no need to share that info.

I am sure your MOH will be hosting a lovely shower for you!

That's a little shallow, OP. Go to your party and enjoy your friends that could make it. Plan your pity party for another day.

Great idea! Those 10 people who said yes are just not enough.

This is a day to celebrate you and your coming up nuptials don't let the people who can't come influence the amout of fun and love the people who can be there. These people want to be there and want to help show you their love, accept it.

That is still a good amount of people. I second what everyone else has been saying. Don't cancel, because 10 people are coming to celebrate with you. Just enjoy it. It will be fun!

I think 10 people is way better. More food for everyone, less expense for the host and less hours watching a bride open gifts....I swear it took me forever to do it, so awkward. Plus you get a chance to actually talk with everyone, which makes them feel extra appreciated and you, extra celebrated.

I'm just disappointed - the excuses are valid - One girl is traveling out of the country, one just had a baby, another has tickets to a sporting game, another has to work and it's a new job se just started etc.

I don't care about the gifts, I just want people to come - so we are thinking of inviting the spouses/boyfriends of the people who are coming to fill up space - but I kinda think that might be a little tacky? (the shower is at a small function room at a restaurant)

Great idea!

No, it's a great idea!

Ok your friends can't make it because they have other things going on, cool. Take a second be bummed about it by yourself. Then get over it. 10 ppl want to come and celebrate with you. Have an amazing lunch/brunch. Be gracious this is happening.

Don't cancel! It will be a lovely get together with women in your life that love you and shower you with gifts to start your life with your FH! It will be a lovely day.