Hello all,
I just wanted to vent.
My fiancé is a writer/publisher and is pretty persistent on trying to succeed in that. He works minimum wage in retail. He doesn't want to go to school or study a trade. I don't expect him to earn a master's degree or become a doctor, but there's times where I do wish he could put in as much effort in a plan b as much as he does with his dream career. I know that finances are an important issue in a relationship and have been told countless times by others how important it is to be on the same page with that. We love each other very much. However there are some days where I start freaking out about our future. I have my own goals and ambitions and can make my own money, therefore I am not wanting to marry him for how much he has in his bank account. If I were to choose to not marry him simply because he doesn't have a better job feels wrong. I see it as me giving it a chance to follow his dream because it makes him happy.
I am throwing this out there because my father is consistently concerned that he is wasting his life and that he could do so much more with himself. I understand his concerns completely and simply can't ignore it because his points are valid. What do you guys think? Any advice?