When my husband and I went to pre-marital counseling our it was recommended that we do research on love languages, determine which two languages we identify with, discuss them with one another, and rate each other on how well we are satisfying them on a weekly basis. For about 3 months my husband and I rated one another and found that it made us more cognitive of one another's needs instead of what we thought each other needed. Overall, we had a great experience with the love languages and although we don't rate each other anymore, we are still very intuned to one another.
In your marriage do you and your spouse believe in the 5 love languages? Why or why not?
