Love Language is it Gifts,words,gestures or All

My love languages are gifts and quality time. My fiance's is physical touch. I can't say that I'm a touchy feely type but knowing this about him, I always speak his language. Touch his arm when he's driving, hold hands when we are out and about, kiss him whenever the opportunity is present. I want to make certain he feels love as often as possible. Thanks for starting this discussion.

View Quoted Comment That's is a wonderful things I forgot to add that because we also give each other a touch as well when were out and in the house. And you are welcome I hope more ppl join our discussion

I feel I got lucky with my fiancé. We both have time as our person favorite love language. For me, words are next followed by a tie between acts of service and touch. We have our preferences, but I try to incorporate all of the love languages. Obviously depending on my mood and how tired I am, one kinda out weights the other. I notice myself doing a lot of acts of service for him, such as getting most of the chores done before he gets home, and starting tasks so he doesn’t have to do as much (he works longer than I do) and in return I always get time and touch from him. We always ask each other about our day and remember to say I love you each day.

View Quoted Comment Yes I love it hearing different types of how we show love. To ours spouses or soon to be I'm just a sucker for love lol lol. And the points that you put out are also true depending or moods or situations. I thank you so much for sharing your comments with us

View Quoted Comment I hope they join in also. For those who don't know, Gary Chapman wrote a book called, The Five Love Languages. The purpose is to know how your partner receives love and then to speak that language. They are:
Words of affirmation

Quality timePhysical touchGifts Acts of service
This hits home for me and I'll share. My fiance just got me a Valentine's gift but it was a picture HE WANTED for our future home. The thought was nice BUT he was not speaking my language, he was satisfying his own desire. There was no craziness to follow but I did ask him to read the book.
Anyone care to share?

View Quoted Comment Oh how thanks for the tip of a plugin of books and etc. Mines doesn't always get mines either he has hits and misses. I love when he tries and I tell him thank baby I do appreciate the thought. I try to speak suggestions to him that I may like. Or jog his memory of what he has done before that made me cry smile how sweet or just thought that counted. I love him so but he needs to get back into the driver's seats of gift giving and Gestures again. And I totally agree with you of them learning of love language or just put alittle more thought and feel us when picking gifts. Thank you as always good feed back and things for us to talk about with our love ones

View Quoted Comment Youre absolutely right. We all have to keep working at a successful relationship. Have a great week.

View Quoted Comment Absolutely we do I just had a talk with him last night so positive thoughts moving forward

My love language is quality time, and my husband's love language is acts of service!

View Quoted Comment That's wonderful! Blessings to you both today and always.

We are both quality time, but I am also acts of service and he is physical touch. I have an extremely busy life (FT job, school, 2 special needs kids) and I never feel more loved than when I realize that he did my laundry or made dinner so I wouldn't have to -- didn't ask or make a big deal about it, just did it to make my life easier.

View Quoted Comment Hi Caryn and thank you so much for joining our forum and telling us about your love language. Please continue to talk with us

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much and the same for you both many many blessings as well ❤

View Quoted Comment Thank you! ♥️