Hello All!
I am honestly at the end of my rope. I have been searching for shapewear with an open crotch for so long. My dress has a slightly lower back and the entire neckline is lace so i can't have any straps. I had no idea that finding high waisted shorts with an open gusset would be so difficult. I know spanx makes them but I am not willing to spend $80 on a pair of spanx that im only going to wear for 6 hours. Aside from that, the spanx i tried out were creating a muffin top on my higher back and they rolled down in less than 10 seconds. I even tried two sizes up and same issue. I carry some of my weight on my back, thighs, and tummy. ...well thats everywhere right? lol I had my first fitting last week so I decided to buy any pair that sucked me in without worrying about the crotch area.. just to have something for the visit you know. Anyway, the seamstress told me that if they weren't the pair I was going to be using that I should take them off. She wanted to get accurate measurements. All in all, I didnt look horrible without the shapewear but i would feel more comfortable with a bit of tummy control. Also, I spent all of 30 minutes in that dress and i felt my thighs start to sweat. I am honestly considering getting high-waisted shapewear and cutting a damn hole myself...
like seriously... how is it that all men's boxers have a freakin pee hole when they can easily just stick their privates out from the top, But women are trapped inside skin-tight shapewear without an open gusset?!?! I guess women don't have to pee huh? grrrr! 
lol
hella frustrated.. the wedding is in a month. Does anyone have any suggestions?
Please help! lol
