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Charlie
Dedicated September 2019

Looking for a red top for my bridesmaid to wear (i'm in uk)

Charlie, on June 2, 2019 at 11:02 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 8

one of my bridesmaids refuse to wear a dress and so we came to an agreement that she could wear white trousers/jeans with a red top. She's 16-18 years old and I simply can't seem to find anything that would match,look nice or tie in nicely with the other girls; she's always in sports wear or just jeans & a tee.

dresses for 3 of my bridesmaidsLooking for a red top for my bridesmaid to wear (i'm in uk) 1

What my youngest cousin is wearing Looking for a red top for my bridesmaid to wear (i'm in uk) 2

All help appreciated


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Latest activity by Sinéad, on July 30, 2019 at 11:21 AM
  • M
    VIP December 2019
    Michelle ·
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    Shw can get a red jumpsuit on etsy that looks just like the red dress your bridesmaids are going to wear. I think the white jeans are going to look wayyyyyyy out of place

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  • M
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    Michelle ·
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    from Midday shop on EtsyLooking for a red top for my bridesmaid to wear (i'm in uk) 3

    From Dresslike on Etsy $65Looking for a red top for my bridesmaid to wear (i'm in uk) 4Also from Dresslike $55Looking for a red top for my bridesmaid to wear (i'm in uk) 5


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  • Charlie
    Dedicated September 2019
    Charlie ·
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    She won't wear a Jump suit :o
    i'm fine with it looking mix matched...

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  • Jenna
    Dedicated July 2019
    Jenna ·
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    I know this is not helpful but.... Is there any reason why she is refusing to wear a dress? It kind of seems like she is making it about her... Not sure why she won't wear a dress for one day!

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  • MrsJohansson
    Expert June 2019
    MrsJohansson ·
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    I agree with this.

    I think OP that you are being super nice to try and accommodate her needs but wow. The wedding is about you and your/FH vision, not hers lol
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  • Kelly
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    Kelly ·
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    I'd get her nicer pants than jeans, possibly white ones. I also agree with looking online and maybe Etsy.
    Also at 16 it is a little too old to have these problems, if you can't her something I wouldn't feel bad about telling her to suck it up. I hate dresses but I wore one for my best friend's wedding anyway.
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  • Charlie
    Dedicated September 2019
    Charlie ·
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    Thanks everyone ,
    We've come to an agreement and I've ordered her a better top.
    She wanted to wear a lace crop top. Arrrghhh but went for a nice blouse instead.
    I think the jeans are more classy than just jeans


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  • Sinéad
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2025
    Sinéad ·
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    Hey Charlie!! Has the top you ordered arrived yet? What is it like?

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