So my husband and i are planning our actual wedding. hes military so we did your typical small little wedding day, now were planning the big thing. however we are stationed in fort bragg NC, which is about 8 hours from our hometown(phila. Pa). so for those who don't live near family, did or would you have your wedding back home and have your friends where you live now travel? (especially a decent amount of them being in the military) or would you have your friends and family back home travel where you are/ to your "destination wedding"?