FH was kind of disappointed that my outfit is a secret and his isn't.... So I decided that it's only fair that I let him choose whatever color he wants (since the bridesmaid dress color would look good with anything). My only requirements were that the groomsmen have neutral colored ties and that he lets me see his tie color since I want to coordinate a green silk scarf of the same color around my bouquet (he really wants a green tie).
He made jokes about a purple tux, but I know it's super important to him to look classy and timeless for our wedding, and I'm actually looking forward to having a surprise of my own on our wedding day. Is anyone else doing this/have done this? What was it like if you did it?