I noticed many people who are planning to move forward with fall weddings this year have been feeling guilty about inviting guests who may end up exposed to the virus.
Yes, every state is in a different predicament right now. But my state (NY) has the virus under control despite everything else going on and despite business violations. If your state is seeing a surge in cases, what I’m about to say may not be so applicable but hear me out!
Today my county legislator gave a briefing in which he made some points that may ease your guilt. Essentially, he said that if a state has the virus under control and begins to enter new phases, we cannot fear the virus. If we are allowed to go to the hair salon, let’s say, we should go. We cannot stifle the economy further and let fear paralyze us. Eventually we have to get back to our normal lives. This is not the normal condition and we don’t know how long it will take for a vaccine or if we ever will approve one.
I also feel that we as brides can’t take ultimate responsibilty for the health of our guests. We can only guarantee that precautions will be taken to protect them at the wedding. At the end of the day it is up to each guest to make decisions about whether they will attend and what precautions they’ll personally take.
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