What are your wedding planning regrets, if any?
For me, it was impulsively asking bridesmaids, when I should have taken the time to carefully choose. I chose FH's brother's (at the time) fiance to be my bridesmaid (they are married now). This was because I didn't want her to feel left out, and I was hoping it would help us get closer. WRONG!!! We got into it over Thanksgiving, and I am too "nice" to ask her to not be a bridesmaid. Well, we've gotten better...as far as we are friendly and talk to each other at family gatherings. That's it though. It just stinks knowing that I have to have her there with me doing all of the things on the big day. But I digress, and I am concentrating on the people that do care.
Anyways, I know this sounds horrible, but I received some good news this morning. I am only slightly ashamed at how happy I am about this. My MOH confirmed that this bridesmaid has declined the invite to my bachelorette (SHOCKER), and I am not upset in the least bit. In fact, I am really happy, because now I am able to invite a friend of mine that I really wanted there but couldn't originally invite due to space capacity. I had guiltily overlooked this friend, when providing the guest list to my MOH in the beginning. But in my defense I was trying to keep it really small. RETROSPECT!!!