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Rosie
Master February 2022

Let's talk about your ideal amount of skin showing?

Rosie, on October 11, 2021 at 7:22 PM

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I enjoy watching say yes to the dress, and am always interested by how adamant some of the entourage can be about how much skin is appropriate to show. Some of the groups seem super conservative, but equally, some of the dresses seem to extremely revealing too - more and more dresses seem to be...

I enjoy watching say yes to the dress, and am always interested by how adamant some of the entourage can be about how much skin is appropriate to show. Some of the groups seem super conservative, but equally, some of the dresses seem to extremely revealing too - more and more dresses seem to be backless, frontless or totally sheer!

I personally think people should wear what they feel comfortable in and makes them happy. And some of them are just stunning!

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But, I myself wouldn't want to show that much on my own day, and I would hazard that a lot of other people wouldn't really either, because they'll be surrounded by not just their own families, including conservative older relatives, but also those of their partner!

It got me thinking. How revealing did you think you wanted your dress to be? Did you end up buying something more or less conservative than you expected? Did your entourage have any impact on your decision?

In my case, my family weren't pushing for me to get something conservative at all, but because I get cold easily, I added sleeves to my dress, and on reflection I think it will be the most covered wedding dress I've seen in our peer group outside of dresses being so for religious/cultural reasons.

I'm curious what your approach was, and what you chose!

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  • Katie & Josh
    Savvy May 2022
    Katie & Josh ·
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    I would say I purchased a gown that showed a bit more skin that I thought I would like, but I had really no idea of what I wanted in terms of a neckline so once I realized I wanted a strapless sweetheart neck, I was already showing more skin than I anticipated. I'm quite busty (38H) so I knew that most necklines were going to either be an issue for me or have some (or a lot) of cleavage. I will say that I'm still showing off more than I planned. I'm not really confident with my body at the moment so I thought I would have wanted an A-line or ballgown and I walked out with a trumpet! Who knew! Not me! It shows off all my curves, which I am SO surprised that I loved as much as I did! Don't think I would go much more revealing or "daring" than I did though. Those sheer dresses are absolutely beautiful, I just don't think I would be comfortable on the day of and my FH would DEFINITELY not be okay with everybody else seeing everything I got goin on, especially his Catholic grandmother.

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    VIP August 2021
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    You think you know what's considered "sexy" and then you enter bridal fashion which is a nude illusion free for all. I'm not conservative-minded but dress in work suits daily, probably because I'm larger chested. However, when I look back on my wedding, I'm glad I opted for an edgy, deep V in a figure-hugging mermaid. My husband was with me at the bridal salon which makes the dress even more special and romantic. I'm probably going to print out my fav pic of us (and my cleavage) for his wallet. I did have a different dress with veil for my church ceremony selected with my parents. I don't think I would do sheer legs, backless, or nude illusion for myself.

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  • Rosie
    Master February 2022
    Rosie ·
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    Awww, it sounds beautiful! And haha, I'm just picturing your fiance's poor grandmother at some of these appointments on say yes to the dress where they want fully sheer everything!

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  • Rosie
    Master February 2022
    Rosie ·
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    Aww, that's nice!

    It's interesting. It seems as though most people are fairly comfortable with a deep v neck, but less so with sheer leg area.

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  • alexandra
    Savvy December 2021
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    I have always been the "princess" type. I didn't even consider trying on anything that wasn't A-line or ballgown. I wanted either a natural or dropped waist because I have an hourglass figure - empire waists make me look heavier and a mermaid would put too much emphasis on my wide hips. I always thought I would want a super-sparkly, blinged-out ballgown like this one:

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    But the dress I ended up falling in love with is simple and elegant, very plain and I just added a beaded belt. I actually think it looks more elegant and bridal than the shiny dresses! I never thought I would love something so not-sparkly, but with the right accessories, I'm absolutely in love and it compliments my figure perfectly. Pics because I had my fitting yesterday and I'm so excited for the big day so FH can finally see it!

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  • Rosie
    Master February 2022
    Rosie ·
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    Beautiful! I also have a plain dress and I think it really puts the emphasis and focus on the silhouette of the dress instead, and especially with a ballgown, it tends to be quite dramatic! (and I will never not love a ballgown!)

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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
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    Comfort level as far as exposed skin is relative. I don’t feel comfortable in exposed chest dresses and am uncomfortable around others wearing them. I’m definitely not a prude by any means but there’s a time and place for everything. Eloping with just your significant other and officiant, wear next to nothing if you want but older relatives, parents, friends, etc don’t want to see that much skin where your chest and underwear are exposed. That’s not to say you have to go to the other extreme with super modest dresses. There is a balance and it depends on you are comfortable in.


    I love many of the revealing styles (low cut bodices and sheer skirts) but I am not personally comfortable enough to wear those in mixed company. I’m very top heavy so that’s a challenge on its own. Then while I wear shorts frequently, I feel awkward showing off that same amount of skin in a dress which I don’t have an explanation for.
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  • Rosie
    Master February 2022
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    It's funny how you can feel like that, isn't it! Maybe because a short dress could flip up and show your under things, whereas a pair of shorts covers things a little more.

    I definitely tend to be on the 'less is more' bandwagon with skin, although I likewise wouldn't call myself prudish (not that you'd know from my dress, it has ended up being extremely conservative because I get cold so easily!) - I just think the power of the imagination can be very exciting!

    Like you, I'm larger in the chest, and I do think that what would look fine on a smaller person tends to look obscene on me, so I wouldn't feel comfortable in a super low dress myself, even though loads of my friends have had them on their wedding days and looked beyond beautiful.

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