Less than 2 month to plan wedding? Help!

You'll have to be flexible on the restaurant. A private dining room for 20 people doesn't tend to get booked up a year in advance the way a formal wedding venue does. But if you don't know when your date is, you can never be sure whether your first choice venue will happen to get booked.

So get information on several private dining rooms that would work for you. Find out costs, menus, etc. Then the moment you know your date, call around until one of them has your date available.

As far as invitations go, hand write them. You can write all the addresses up and put on the stamps ahead of time. And write all of the invitation except the date, the place of the reception, and the RSVP date. As soon as you have those things, you can finish the invitations quickly and drop them in the mail.

As far as a bakery goes, think about just having the restaurant make the cake for you. It may not be the most ornate of cakes. But they can probably do something nice, and it will be a lot simpler than trying to deal with an outside bakery.

And breathe. Corporate meetings are often set up in private dining rooms with only a few weeks' notice. So this isn't impossible; it just involves getting everything that doesn't depend on the date and place (e.g., getting your dress if you want one) done early, so you can focus on the things that need to be last minute as they come up.