We are 1 week out and are in predicament. The pastor, as well as those close know exactly what is going on, but we are a week out. Our wedding is now a commitment ceremony as we cannot legally get married. We are planning to be open on the wedding day and let people know some details but do we let them know ahead of time that this is our "wedding" but not us legally getting married? I feel like we are being deceptive if we do not let them know ahead of time but also we are a week out. We are telling people the need to know details the day of.
We can't cancel, our pastor has petitioned where he can, we have tried every means we can, we just can't speed up what we are struggling through. Do we send texts to some people? Do we do face to face with those we can? I mean our biggest issue is we do not want to seem like we are trying to hide anything or bring people in for something we can't prevent or something it isn't. I hope that makes sense.
