Late wedding photos

Our photographer, who is very sweet, sent me an email two days after our December 10 wedding stating in bold letters that our photos would be delivered in 8-10 weeks. This happily surprised me because our contract said 10-12 weeks!
So I put it out of my mind and around week 8 I started checking my wedding email…obsessively lol.
I thought, maybe we’ll have our photos by Valentine’s Day - middle of week 9. Nope. Then, maybe photos by my birthday at the end of February - week 11. Nothing. The day after my birthday, photographer sent me an Instagram DM stating that photos were taking longer than normal because she’s working on a special edit for us and that we would have them “very soon”. Okay, cool. A little bummed because it’s a week past the due date, but they are coming soon! Well, now we are 14 days from that DM and into week 13 - 3 months just passed on the calendar. I realize this is a champagne problem and in the grand scheme of my life this won’t matter, but because she told me they could be ready by week 8, I have been thinking about these photos almost exclusively for the past month + change. (Driving my wife insane lol.) And truly, it’s making me a little depressed. I put so much thought and effort into our wedding after being engaged for 3.5 years and it’s annoying that this wedding is *still* taking up headspace. I want these photos so I can send a few to print and move on with my life. Also - we planned to have photos and albums be thank you gifts for our families who paid for the wedding, so it especially sucks that we’ve had to wait this long for a proper thank you gift. I know vendors are so swamped the past year, and our photographer specifically has been extremely booked. Has anyone else had to wait this long (or longer??) for wedding photos? Do I just shut up and wait? Any thoughts appreciated!