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Ems
Devoted October 2017

Late RSVP, added on their kids.

Ems, on September 29, 2017 at 5:20 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 22

Our wedding is no kids and I just got a late RSVP in the mail today for a couple that marked attending and wrote in their 3 kids as well. I reached out to them after our deadline and got no response, and I gave my final count to my venue on Wednesday. Would you contact them again and say no kids?...

Our wedding is no kids and I just got a late RSVP in the mail today for a couple that marked attending and wrote in their 3 kids as well. I reached out to them after our deadline and got no response, and I gave my final count to my venue on Wednesday.

Would you contact them again and say no kids? Just deal with it? I'm not sure what to do.

So annoyed...

22 Comments

  • Whitney
    Dedicated October 2017
    Whitney ·
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    Def tell them. If anything 'blame' the venue and just say you got the final count on and can't include the children. Good luck! People can be so rude!

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  • bluevelvet
    Devoted October 2017
    bluevelvet ·
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    Call them and say we gave our count, we can't accommodate the extra guests. They are wrong, they have bad manners and are putting you and your groom in a weird spot. Be firm and if any drama starts, say you will miss them!

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