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Last minute invite

Jess, on June 21, 2017 at 7:34 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6

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So I have a girl who I know through a mutual friend. There's four of us that are friends and always hang out together, she invited us all to her bachlorette party, but unfortunately no one could make it. She invited my three friends to the night event by asking there address through facebook and sending them an invite, I didn't recieve one at all. Until less than two weeks before the wedding the girl whos our mutual friend messaged me on fb and invited me saying there doing last minute things and she never had my address. Might be petty but I don't really wanna go and it's pretty obvious I was never on her radar which I totally get. My friends are saying I should go but I'm not sure, any advice would be appreciated?

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Latest activity by Brittney, on June 21, 2017 at 11:01 AM

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Natalie · on June 21, 2017 at 7:39 AM
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So you were b listed to a tiered wedding? Hell no!
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Anna · on June 21, 2017 at 7:43 AM
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Yeah it sucks, but if it were a close enough friend and it seemed like a good time I'd still go... I'd like to give her the benefit of the doubt.
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Courtney · on June 21, 2017 at 7:53 AM
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Ugggh totally sucks! That's why you're not supposed to publicly do that sort of wedding thing on FB.
It's totally up to you whether or not you go. It sounds like you did get b listed, but if you wanna go spend the night with your friends (maybe be the bigger person) you'd at least get a nice meal out of it?
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GymRat · on June 21, 2017 at 8:26 AM
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What?
You just said you don't really want to go. So then don't go. What advice do you need??
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Jo · on June 21, 2017 at 8:51 AM
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So you were invited to the bachelorette, then all your friends were asked for their addresses and formally invited, and now your mutual friend who is not the bride is inviting you to come to the wedding?

If you don't want to go, don't go and don't feel badly about it at all.
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Brittney · on June 21, 2017 at 11:01 AM
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If you don't want to go to her wedding, then don't go.

I would caution you not to go out of some sort of obligation. You should only attend the wedding if you're going to have a good attitude about it. If you're going to make a fuss about how you were invited last minute, then don't attend. No one wants to be around a negative person on such a happy day.
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