Lacking motivation

Honey just take the time to grieve! Everyone processes differently and maybe you need a little longer! You and your mom could dance together or your uncle if you wanted! don't push yourself to think about things that make you sad!

Also, I'm so sorry for your loss!

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Thank you so much, Mandee. I took some time off work to not only grieve but to deal with health issues of my own and I have started seeing a grief counselor.

Take some me. Loss of a parent is hard. Maybe have your fh take charge for a bit. I am so sorry for your loss. I know it's hard.

Sending gentle hugs. I have lost both parents and it’s still tough (15 years without my dad, 9 without mom) especially now as I am getting busy with all the planning. Be kind to yourself during these days - if you need to take a break in planning, do it. Maybe a trusted family member or friend could help you so it’s not all on your shoulders as you grieve. Xoxo.

Hey Meagan,
I lost my Mama, two years ago.
Time will help, but it never gets easier.Grief will definitely hit you in waves and so will the happy memories.
Look for signs from Heaven to comfort you. That's what I do and it helps.When I bought my wedding dress, I felt her presence all around me.
Rest assured your Father will be with you on your big day! He will have a front row seat from Heaven.
I'm honoring my Mama in several ways. One of which is while we are dancing to one of her favorite songs "Tears in Heaven" I will have a video playing behind us with pictures of her over the years. I'm also leaving a chair for her, it will also have her picture and I'll have a memorial table for all of our missing family members.
I also put her name on our Invitations, that was very important to me.
It's just a moment by moment day by day process. Just know that he shares your joy and would want you to enjoy this process of planning.I believe that he will be with you every step of the way everyday to guide and watch over you.They say if you dream of a lost loved one, and remember it upon waking, it was a visit from Heaven and they are telling you that they are ok.Look for your dream! It will happen and it will grant you some peace.Hugs to you! I'm here if you need me!

I’m so sorry to hear about the passing of your father.

I would take some time away from planning for a little bit. You need to use this time to grieve and focus on yourself and your family. You still have a few months until your wedding, so I don’t think there is any harm in taking some time away. Once you feel up to it, it might be a great distraction for you.

I’m so sorry for your loss. Please take the time needed to grieve your loss. The wedding will all come together in time but right now you need to focus on you. When you’re feeling more up to it then focus on the wedding things but for now put that on the back burner a bit. Your mental health is more important.