l feel like lm not doing enough

Just do one thing at a time, which is move. And after your settled start planning the wedding. Good luck you got this.

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much , lm just sitting here crying and beating myself up. lm the first in my family to actually plan a wedding and l literally have no help. l mean my fiancé is helping but lm just becoming so overwhelming but your absolutely right. l just need to do one thing at at time. Thank you so much l truly appreciate it.

View Quoted Comment Your welcome, just take it easy. The wedding is in 2024. And I'm sure it will turn out great.💜

Agree with Traci. Get moved first, that should be your main focus. You have plenty of time to wedding plan. Don’t over work yourself. You’re doing just enough.

First take a deep breath you have plenty of time!! I got engaged a year out from our wedding moved in over a weekend and went straight to work I regret not having that extra time to enjoy the moving in process with my Fiancé. Although moving sucks you're moving in with the love of your life give your self a month or so to get settled and then start planning. There are a lot of timelines out there you can follow that'll help keep you on track. Like Imani said don't over work yourself!! Rome wasn't built in a day.

View Quoted Comment Thank you for your encouraging words and you right as well . l need to focus on moving and fet

View Quoted Comment Thank you for your encouraging words and your absolutely right l judt need to focus on moving and setting in with my fiancé and getting everything l need switched as full as my doctors, mail address etc over in that area.

Planning a wedding is overwhelming, and it's totally normal to feel the way you do. I'd echo everyone else and recommend focusing on moving first. That'll help you feel a lot more grounded and like the world isn't moving from under you. Once you're settled, just take things one at a time. My mantra whenever I start thinking about how I need to do a million things is "be here now." If I'm looking for photographers, I focus on that rather than stressing about still needing to book a florist, hair & makeup, etc. It's a lot easier to worry about one decision rather than a whole bunch at a time.

Breathe! You have a lot of great things happening but it can be overwhelming. Remember to breathe! Prioritize things. Focus on your move, settle in and spend some time just enjoying your new living arrangements. Then move on to planning the wedding. Prioritize that too, not everything needs to be planned and sorted at the same time. Enjoy the process. You have enough time to get everything done.

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much and your absolutely right , I just need to take everything one day at a time and focus on the moving process first.

View Quoted Comment I also wanted to say thank you so much for helping me see the sun through the fog . l felt so alone and lm glad you responded to my discussion l really didn't think anyone would've. My mind feels more at ease , once again thank you so much. l wish l had more individuals in my life to talk to and actually listen.

View Quoted Comment No problem at all! It’s a safe space here. Please feel free to vent here, ask questions, and express your emotions. We are all here to help!

View Quoted Comment Thank you l definitely will, l truly appreciate it 🙂

View Quoted Comment Of course ❤️

I had a long engagement as well. I felt like the Knot's planning checklist helped me not feel overwhelmed and gave me some direction with pacing.

View Quoted Comment Thank you and l actually purchased the knot wedring planning book and lm slowing pieces things together in it. l need to be more dedicated to suing it.

I totally get it. I myself have taken on way WAY too many things in addition to planning a wedding. Learn from my mistakes lol and focus on one thing at a time. Move first and then you can come back to wedding planning

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much, and your absolutely right that should be my first priority and just ler everything else just fall un place. Once I'm settled in then l can focus on planning.