Our original plan was to start living together around the same time as our wedding, next spring. But I recently landed a high-paying job that will more than double our combined income, meaning we can buy a place together, live comfortably, and still have the wedding we want without any financial struggles. My family (who I'm close with, but I don't always do what they wish by any means) is against us living together before marriage, FH's family doesn't care, FH really wants to, and I don't have an opinion (that's why I'm here).
I suppose moving in together before marriage has become normal in society now (even expected), but what's the point of getting married if you're moving in together beforehand? Maybe I'm just looking for some reassurance that if we move in together in the next few months, we'll still feel special and excited after we get married next year.
Also, if you lived together before marriage, did anything change in your relationship after you tied the knot? TIA!