Kissing games

DJ suggested to us "Kiss Cam" so you give the DJ a list of couples ahead of time. Then throughout the night he will call out a couple off of the list. Then they must kiss and however they choose to kiss the new MR and Mrs must copy it and kiss the same way the couple did.

No. Just no.

Please don't do this. You aren't a prostitute who gets paid by the kiss, and a wedding isn't a fundraiser.

What about kissing menus. The guests must do something off of the menu to get the couple to kiss and they are things that will make embarrass the guest as much as the clinking of glasses to the bride and groom.

This is good, LOL!

I got my popcorn. Now GO!

Games are one thing, asking someone to pay to view an affectionate moment is basically prostitution. You don't ask guests you are hosting to open their wallets.

Um no. If people start clinking glasses, I'm getting on the dance floor. I will kiss FH when the moment moves me. I think it's a nice idea to give the cash to charity, but I also think that we're asking our guests for enough, just to be there.

Oh and Lizz - I'm 100% behind you. I agree wholeheartedly.

Just put a tip cup on the head table. Problem solved.

I don't think this is a good idea. I do agree about the kissing menu. I went to a wedding recently and the couple had a kissing menu. On the menu they had: Give the couple advice, Share a funny story about the couple, sing the couple a love song, perform a charade from your favorite romantic movie, and recite a Shakespearean sonnet or ballad. I think if you did something like that your guest would probably enjoy it. Just my opinion and you only you know your guest best.

As Celia said, no. There is no point to this other than getting your guests to give you money for a charity they may or may not endorse. Why does there have to be a game that gets you to kiss? I've never understood that tradition.

Horrible idea. Fundraisers are not meant to be at a wedding.

In my family people stomp their feet and the couple get under the table and kiss. Then they bang on the table and the couple stand on their chairs and kiss.

Does anyone know a way to avoid the kisses and clinking of glasses all together? FH and I aren't really into kissing in front of everyone. Lizz said it was an affectionate moment, and it is. But it's also intimate and doing it in front of 100+ people isn't intimate. The wedding ceremony kiss should be enough!

Anything that allows guests to randomly have an open mic is not a good idea.

My family loves clinking the glass for a kiss, but we are using plastic, so no clinking. We are doing kazoos....if you want us to kiss, you must stand up and hum a song into a kazoo. I think it will be fun.

Double post

I am not kissing him in front of people other than the ceremony. It is weird to kiss in front of my family, and FH is a foot taller than me so the only time I get kisses is when he does it.