Kids at weddings

I don’t think it would be fair to let them ask only one cousin to come, as if there are some not asked they could be really upset. I don’t think anyone requires an explanation of why your children are permitted and no one else’s. It’s your wedding, and you are entitled to have it that way. Just word your invitations as as adult reception. As for keeping the kids busy, I don’t think you’ll need to do much. There’s going to be a lot of excitement going on and enough people around that will want to visit with them to keep them busy. If you’re worried about the festivities running late or being too much for them, maybe look into getting a babysitter to pick them up at some point.

Thank you! I also should mention that the venue is on a lake with an open bar, so having kids around could be stressful to some parents that are worried about their kids wandering to the water. You’re right though. There will be plenty to keep them busy lol.

I think your kids will be more than fine enjoying time with their extended family! If you truly don't want kids I think like previous poster said it would be unfair for them to pick one cousin. If you really feel the need you could have a baby sitter come pick them up so they aren't there all night. I think that's a good idea or they can just have a night up late partying! Haha

Please don't let them pick a cousin, that will leave hurt feelings. I don't think there is anything wrong with having the only kids at a wedding to be your kids. That is expected! I would have someone come and pick them up so you can have a adult time into the evening!!

NO picking one cousin !! Growing up my brother was closer to some cousins than I was, which was circumstance but a little bit of a bummer (a couple boys close in age? The pesky little sister never would’ve stood a chance)— it would’ve devastated me to not get picked if my brother did (and that’s the very start of the complications!). So if they were choosing someone I’d stipulate NONfamily and make it be a friend ...of course, then you’d suddenly have 4 children you’re solely responsible for watching on your wedding day— not my idea of a good time, haha. So, I’d opt for the sitter pick up. Sounds like the best option. Can have the sitter come earlier and just take them when they’re ready to go (maybe they want to stay out and boogey for a bit, but at least someone else is in charge, and getting them home and put to bed)— sounds like a great idea!