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Super October 2020

Just Venting

Trisha, on April 10, 2020 at 7:38 AM Posted in Planning 0 4

My FH Is In The Navy As Am I And he Has Been On Deployment Since October. He Was Suppose To Be Home A Month Ago, And Then This Month But Now it's Not Happening. it Could Be A Month To Another 90 Days Before He Comes Home. He Left A Week After We had Our 2nd Son. On Top Of Taking Care Of Them, Working, College, And Trying To Plan A Wedding Im Just So Over It. I Dont Even Wanna Look At Another Wedding Website Or Anything At This Point. Smiley cry

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Latest activity by Naikesha, on April 11, 2020 at 5:31 AM
  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I’m sorry that you are going through this right now but maybe take a break from wedding planning and do something to make yourself feel better. Hopefully this will all be over soon and he will be able to come home and join you and your son. Good luck
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  • Kate
    Expert October 2020
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    So sorry you’re feeling this way. I think it’s normal to have these feelings throughout the wedding planning process, a few times over. Take a break from it all, give yourself a couple weeks later to hit the reset button. It will all be here when you come back.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Aw i'm sorry, that sounds hard to be away from each other so long

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  • Naikesha
    Super September 2020
    Naikesha ·
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    Sorry to hear that and I personally can relate as my brother is in the navy and deployed 1 month after my sister-in law had twins. So yes it's hard to feel like a single parent, it's hard to feel alone, it's frustrating to keep getting your hopes up only to be let down. i'm not insensitive to the fact that he signed up for this but you can't control it and stress kills. Try your best to take a wedding break for a week or two . Make sure to be strict to bed times with the kids.Although you might be tired but set some time aside after cleaning at night to take a bubble bath, paint your toes, watch your favorite movie, cook yourself a decent non-kid friendly meal have a nice glass of wine, pamper yourself you deserve it.

    And when you are feeling a little less stressed Thank God that your husband is safe, you and your family are blessed, you are going to marry your best friend and try as hard as it is to find a silver lining that it will all work out and you are a strong woman and your kids have 2 super hero parents!

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