I need some thoughts or advice on what to do in this situation... Sorry in advance for this long and probably overly detailed post!! I promise it's worth it
My BFF was supposed to be my MOH. She even helped my FH plan out his proposal and she has been with me for over 10 years. I was her MOH last summer even though it was a little rocky, I found her to be a little Bridezilla-ish, but we made it through. Now after some recent events, I am wondering if I should even continue our friendship or what to do from here…
So there were a few things that have kind of pushed me away. First, I have been trying to get in shape, work out, eat healthy, drink more water etc and also be a more positive person all around.. I told her how they encourage you to drink a lot of water during the day in this program I am using and she *scoffed* at me and said that it wasn't healthy to drink a lot of water... Um ok? lol I am also trying to put myself out there and meet some new girlfriends since a lot of my friends are having babies or moved away and sometimes its nice to have more than one person to go out with. I mentioned this to her and she was like a combination of offended, hurt, and mostly mad/annoyed that I was trying to make new friends.
Then, the next thing was at the proposal party she was extremely rude towards my FH family and saying some negative things to me about them (which I love his family so I did not appreciate her remarks/behavior.) She also said something to me about some of my own family members that I felt was uncalled for. Then later that evening after everyone went home, obviously I was enjoying my time with my new fiancé and we were just being together, she started texting me about how her and her husband were in a fight and she hates him and blah blah... I stopped responding because honestly, I was trying to enjoy my moments of the day with him and really was not worried about her issues at the time.
Fast forward a few weeks later at the beginning of this month, she really
got on my nerves. She was venting and complaining about money. She was getting
a significant raise at work but still not happy with what she was getting…
Maybe I was already annoyed at her previous behavior, but I got really annoyed
by this because she constantly tells me how much her husband makes (she has
this new obsession with everyone needing to make 6 figures and basically
bragging that he does) and the last thing I want to hear is how you have no
money. I told her I thought she was being a little insensitive towards me when she
is already aware that she makes more money than I do and knows that we struggle sometimes
ourselves. My FH is in school and looking for a new job as well. She did
apologize but I really haven’t had the desire to talk to her since then because
it all has just rubbed me the wrong way. I consider myself to be taking a break
from our friendship but I don’t know where to go from here. We haven’t talked/texted
in about almost 3 weeks and honestly don’t even know what I would say to her to
try and revive this. Any advice?
PS: If you read this far, thanks a lot! You are the best!