Just here to vent

My FH dad isn’t in the picture, hasn’t been since he was a child. Recently we found his current wife and we reached out to her, she had reached out to him about 6 years ago and my fh expressed a desire to build a relationship with that side of the family. I am so big in family and spent months trying to find a way to contact them, needless to say we contacted the wife because his father doesn’t seem to have social media- homegirl read it and ignored it.


I’m so devastated for my FH. I know how important it was to build a relationship with his sister and his dad, and it doesn’t seem like that’s going to be possible. I also can’t imagine what the rejection of your father feels like and i’m so upset for him. Have any of you experienced something similar? What have you learned from the situation? I’m so proud of him for reaching out, but I certainly don’t want him to feel like he isn’t worthy or good enough.