My cousin and her girlfriend got engaged a while ago, and I could not be happier for her. Even if we aren't as close as we were growing up, there is no bad blood between us.
She reached out to me today for my address for her Save the Dates and we started talking wedding because we are both getting married this year. Then I asked the question..."When is your date anyways?"
She is getting married an exact week after me.
This is not a real dilemma, we are both laughing about it. We each did not even realize what date the other was looking at so this is just something to make us smile and laugh at in the middle of our wedding stress.