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Cynthia
Expert June 2019

June has been a rough start!

Cynthia, on June 4, 2019 at 5:42 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 4
So this has been a difficult time for my FH and I. May 31st I found out that my very good friend died in a car accident. Him and I have known each other since kindergarten. Yesterday morning my FH's grandmother passed away from it just being her time to pass on. It's unfortunate that these two wonderful people will not be at the wedding.. I feel that this has me very overwhelmed. I am having a hard time focusing on the wedding. And our wedding is next weekend. We are going to miss them even more at the wedding. Just venting.

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Latest activity by Cynthia, on June 4, 2019 at 5:58 PM
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Condolences to you.
    I know this is not the right time to continue wedding planning but there are people for their wedding who will commemorate loved ones such as leaving an empty chair with a sign symbolically saying that's for them.
    Or you can even honor them in wedding programs or wearing any jewelry or anything given to you by them.
    I wish you the best in this time and congrats to your upcoming nuptials. They're shining down on you for your union and are happy for you from where they are.
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  • Cynthia
    Expert June 2019
    Cynthia ·
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    Yes we have a way that we honoring passed away loved ones at the wedding. I just want to find good pictures of them both. We have my FH'S grandmothers funeral tomorrow and my friends is this Saturday. Thank you. I know they will be apart of it some how. I just wish we could see them there.
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
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    Oh no! I'm so sorry for your loss! You both need to take a day or two just to process what has happened, and your feelings that go with these tragedies. Lean on each other for emotional support, and anyone else you feel close to.

    You will miss them at the wedding, of course. But you will have them in your heart, and remember them on your special day. It will get easier over time. My prayers are with you and your family.

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  • Cynthia
    Expert June 2019
    Cynthia ·
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    Thank you.. I think we have been doing well with being there for each other and understanding each others feelings. I hope the wedding helps my FH'S family in way. Just to have a good time but i also worry that it will be hard not see her there.
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