July 2020

That’s totally normal ! Because it was something you were looking forward to,that’s why you feel disappointment that it’s not happening

View Quoted Comment Thanks.. I really need to hear from somebody that its normal coz I am starting to feel mix emotions that I dont really understand.

Of course it's normal. Anytime something special is planned and cancels it will always remain special in our minds and hearts. It's OK to feel the way you are feeling and be sure to talk it out with you FH; I'm sure he feels the same way.

Its normal. We postponed our big wedding in April, and even though we eloped it was a small affair where we didn't take many pictures. Do something special on the day anyway - go to a special dinner and get a cake and dress up some. Make it a little special for you guys anyway. Its still your day even if your big party got cancelled.

Totally normal! I postponed my July 2020 wedding as well. My fiance and I planned a fun weekend with friends for our original date, and I found that it has helped a bit to have something to look forward to. As someone else suggested, plan something to make the original day special! Talk out your feelings with your fiance. I've also heard that it gets easier once the original date passes.

Yes it’s totally normal, and this feeling will pass! I think next year will be better for everyone. 2020 has NOT been good to anyone

Thank you so much for all your comments. it really help me a lot to feel better.

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I love this idea. We see a lot of elopements with immediate families, but planning some sort of safe and fun weekend (or easy weekend getaway) with friends is so nice! Especially now that some restrictions have been relaxed in a few areas.

It is definitely normal to feel this way and remember that many couples and families are going through these delays right now together. We'll all come out better and stronger for it. Definitely do something on your original day to make it special and if you postpone, you'll have your mini special day and another special day down the road!

It is totally normal!! I was a July bride too and I am noticing a bit of my sadness is creeping back in now that I would have been less than a month to the big day. I'm just planning to keep busy that weekend - spa day with my MOH and then heading out of town with the FH for a mini trip. Maybe you can also plan something special for yourself so you aren't left without any structure or distraction on your special day.

Yes that’s completely normal! It was a day you’ve spent so much time, money and effort to plan, just to postpone. It’s completely understandable. We were supposed to get married in May but had to postpone as well, and the whole week (and maybe week after lol) my emotions were all over the place. I agree to plan something for the day to keep your mind busy. Our state was still on lockdown at the time so we couldn’t really go anywhere, but we still treated ourselves to a nice dinner at home, bottle of wine and a small cake to celebrate!

Normal. We also postponed our July 2020 wedding. I’m not sure where you live, but here in the south it’s ridiculously hot out right. I’m starting to be very thankful that I don’t have to deal with the this heat in a wedding dress. Virtual hugs! This month will also fly by and we can get excited about our new dates.

I lived in chicago, although they alow gathering up to 50 people, I am scared to do it and afterward family member got sick, I cant carry that guilt. plus I work in a healthcare I see the worse.

Yes, definitely normal. I know some people that are talking about pushing back to 2022 just to be safe.

Susie x