For those of you wearing ivory dresses, is your flowergirl also wearing an ivory dress? My flowergirl is my 5-year old daughter, so I thought it would be cute for us to match. But I have had the hardest time finding cute ivory shoes for me, so I don't want to have the same problem with her shoes! Would it look better in pictures for us both to have ivory dresses, or do you think white for her would be ok?